How to Buy Lingerie for a Partner

November 13, 2019

How to Buy Lingerie for a Partner

Buying lingerie for a partner can be really fun for both of you. But it can also totally backfire if you don't consider their taste, comfort and style preferences. Buying lingerie that you want to see your partner in doesn't always jive with buying lingerie that they actually want to wear. And while it may be super sexy in your mind, consider what it would feel like to wear something as intimate as underwear that is ill-fitting, unflattering or just so not your style. Trust us, feeling good really does equal looking good and we're here to help you find the perfect gift to make your special someone feel sexy as hell!

1) Find Their Size

This is probably the most important piece of information you need to make a great purchase. There is hardly anything worse than being gifted a bra that is way too small or panties that hang loose. Trust us - that does not feel sexy. But, this can all be avoided with a super quick peek in your partner's underwear drawer. This is not 'creepy', it's called doing your research. Check out the tags in a couple of bras and panties to get the right size. And, while you're in there...

2) Note Their Preferences

If your special someone's partial to a brief - as in, there's not a thong in sight - do not take it upon yourself to push them outside their comfort zone with the gift of a g-string. Remember, this is a gift for them and if they're not comfortable, they won't enjoy wearing it. And, that's no fun for either of you.

3) Consider Their Style

Wearing lingerie, like any other item of clothing, is a way of expressing ourselves. It's personal. So, keeping their style in mind is key. If there are no pastels in their wardrobe (intimate or otherwise), look for other colours or patterns you know they like and you're bound to find a gift that will be loved!

4) Ask For Help

We got you covered, because that's our job! Just give us a call (416-546-7666) or drop by and we will help you find the perfect gift! If your partner's a Stole My Heart client, let us know and we can help make suggestions based on their purchase history!

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